Don’t compete you work hard for all of everything we have, what he sees is what he gets, take it or leave it. When I give I get my all if I all is not enough, it is okay. But remember this before you ever need me again. All that I gave you will never get from anyone else they can never be me. Don’t be blind to your worth just because you are not worthy of him.
Be careful who you brag to about your kids. They can attach enemies as well. Don’t let others scare your kids. Don’t speak ill over your kids. Your kids are the ones who have to make it for you one day.
What you can’t or haven’t accomplished allow and teach your kids to do it. Support them like one supported you.